Do you know the impact that words can make in your marriage?
Couples often say that the number one problem they have to face in their marriage is a breakdown in communication.
Learning how to communicate in the early stage of marriage the better.
Research shows that the earlier couples learn to communicate effectively the greater the chance to succeed in their marriages.
Words have power.
Words can cut like a sword or cultivate kindness, generosity, joy, and optimism.
You reap what you sow.
Therefore choose words wisely.
Three tips on communicating your spouse.
#1 Be vigilant in keeping your words positive.
Take the time to think before you speak.
Remember that you can use your words for good or for naught.
Understand the law of cause and effect.
#2 Use discernment with your words.
Rather than becoming judgmental, listen intently to the opinions and views of your partner.
#3 Always stay in a place of respect even if you have different preferences.
Wield your words with integrity, truth, and kindness.
Self-Reflection Questions:
- How can you pay closer attention to your words and their effects?
- How can you stay in integrity with your words?
- How can you practice discernment rather than judgment?
