YOU DESERVE TO BE A HAPPY & TRULY RICH SPOUSE!  NOW IS THE TIME...

Do You Have A BIG Dream For Your Marriage  And Want To Boost Your Relationship, Feel Loved and Look Empowered Without Sacrificing Your Personal Passion?

Have you ever asked yourself any of the following questions...

Where did our passion go?

What will inspire us to continue in this relationship?

We are working hard but why can't we improve our economic life?

Until when will I be stressed in this rat race of my married life?

Why can't I change him/her? Why is it that it's always me who's adjusting?

When will our relationship run smoothly and at peace?

How can we stop this money-rooted arguments?

Is there a chance for us to prosper?

If you say, "YES I asked some if not all of these questions,"  then YOU ARE HAVING SYMPTOMS OF A HEART MUSCLE CONFUSION!

H.M.C.  is when you are confused on your feelings for your partner, overwhelmed on the different non-effective actions you applied and advices you received from friends and family to make your marriage right and work for the better. You can not even find the missing piece of your relationship that even if you have worked hard, it still gives you the feeling that you are no longer inspired, stuck, fears separation and you keep on chasing peace, joy, money and prosperity.

Your inner self wants to tell your partner...

I am lonely.

Please be good to me.

Why can't you let me stop crying.

If You Ignore These Pains, It Just Gets Worse

The hurts pile up, multiplies marital problems, and even lead to your separation, that feeling of abandonment and humiliation prevails which is not what you envisioned to have, this is not what you dream of when you decided to commit, marry and live with your partner.

If You Take Care Of Your Marriage

You can be looking out with little effort when you will have your next vacation, growing old together with harmony and prosperity instead of a situation that you had created with no communication, no connection, no fun, money is scarce and a love tank empty for each other.

Hi Friend I’m JET ELNAR.

We have seen our share of marital struggles but what we have also seen were relationships transformed.

Our HARMONY & MONEY STORY

I would like to tell you our story about being saddled with debt, having symptoms of H.M.C. and how we managed to gain control over our finances, live the life we always imagined, and start a thriving business.

Like you, all we envision of is a harmonious, prosperous marriage, seeing myself and partner happily playing with our children, and if problems will come our way we overcome them together.

But things were not what we thought of.

My mom got cancer.

My father in law got sick.

I had a complete bed rest during my pregnancy and stopped working for the whole term.

We always were in money trouble.

In our first day of marriage we already incurred a house mortgage, through a government housing institution that accepts housing loans.

After a year I got pregnant and had a full term complete bed rest that added the burden since I had to make a ten month work leave for I almost had a miscarriage.

On this same year my husband decided to make a vehicle loan believing that it would save us time and travel cost.

One afternoon, he came home with a credit card on hand for they were made to get one in their company.

We were happy for a while because we can make  purchases if worse comes to worst financially. Then credit piled up, compound interest rose and woke up one morning in credit card trouble.

All this time we had so many problems, wrong financial decisions and we were always in money argument and without peace of mind. We felt so unauthentic  while we were serving a couple community and church our relationship was a disaster at home. There was even a moment when I contemplated separation from him.

During those times, I had heart muscle confusion, there were times I hated him but  I also felt that I still loved him.

Our day to day encounter was not inspiring and counterproductive.

I was so lonely inside.

I felt I had nobody to listen to my feelings of helplessness. 

I was so afraid to share to a family member or a friend about all my problems to protect myself, to spare me from embarassment and humiliation.

Life was not easy and energies were so low.

Then one day, I had an opportunity to apply for a job abroad.

Thinking that earning in dollars will help alleviate our financial condition I was so hopeful.

Together with fellow teacher applicants, we were interviewed, made to pay six figure fees, promised of a sponsoring employer yet still we were not deployed abroad.

We were made to hope that our sponsors were still working on our papers.

But the unexpected happened. I got scammed by the agency. 

When it rains it pours, at that same time my mom's cancer was in  stage four.

The last blow was when my hubby had a stroke.

It was my turning point,  literally we were  BROKE, not a single peso was saved.

We were in debt trouble. Our relationship was not getting better. It was a mess!

He then took an early retirement to recuperate and use the separation pay for some of our debts.

Later, I too availed an early retirement.

Obviously it seems we needed financial literacy.

Nope. We needed an overhaul!

But what we needed most that time are people who can mentor us on how to bounce  back and how we can recover losses.

It opened our minds.

What we really needed that time was not "financial literacy" but “TOTAL TRANSFORMATION.”

Our mind, body, heart  and soul must be transformed. 

We prayed for financial, emotional and physical healing.

Then We Found Our SAVIORS

We were able to have peace of mind and stopped money arguments.

We serve in church with authenticity and joy.

My husband is helping me in my passion to write books, speak and eventually led us to mentoring couples.

We started to financially recover.

Our business is moving forward.

Together with my hubby, Manny, became  U.S. certified marriage mentors, marriage assessment facilitators and we have the privilege to mentor spouses for more than ten years now.

In short  we started to build a harmonious and empowered relationship.

Our realization and mantra, " Great marriages begin with a solid foundation."

Two Things That Helped Us Change Our Couple Situation.

We did only two things...

SELF-REFORMATION AND CREATED OUR ROADMAP

We agreed working on our SELF IMPROVEMENT to work for a better relationship.

We redirected our heart and mind to what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious, excellent and worthy to be praised. 

In short, we focused on the positive side of the crisis.

As experts would say, "our thoughts determine our lives."

When our thoughts changed, our lives changed.

When our thoughts changed, our relationship also changed.

We agreed to having CLARITY of our destination as a couple.

It was the best thing that happened in our marital journey.

Being clear on our STRATEGIES to not only survive but to THRIVE in this complex world gave us a new perspective specially in the perspective of Harmony and Money.

SELF-REFORMATION

Our self-reformation started when we got rid of pride, we allowed ourselves to be mentored, we were again life students, read books, attended lots of trainings, bought lots of online programs, talked to relationship and financial experts.

We took the  marriage assessment to be more aware on the dynamics and momentum of our relationship backed with real data.

We went through the process of improving our habits and our mindset as an empowered spouse.

CREATED OUR CUSTOMIZED ROADMAP

Every marriage has its own circumstance.

What worked for others may not work on your own.

What we discovered along the way that there are seven common steps applicable for all marriages to reach the destination of love. We created our customized roadmap.

RESULT

For years and to date we were able to share what we know to engaged and married couples.

Couples experienced the assessment, and created their own unique METO Roadmap. 

And you can just imagine the joy they felt and how fulfilling it is on our end to find spouses happy and thriving in their own relationships.

Everything changed.

I began to pursue my passion. I wrote an ebook.

We started our Marriage Empowerment Toast live streaming on our Facebook group, page and YouTube channel.

Spouses started to email us, commented on our videos and sent private messages.

We've noticed common couple problems like money, infidelity, attitude problem, commitment,  communication etc., but what is inspiring us is that they, including YOU want to be mentored!

Introducing 

METO Membership

We call it the Marriage Empowerment Tribe Oasis or in short, the METO way.

It is a dynamic and supportive membership community divided into two areas harmony and money. We are here for each other every step of the way, navigating the challenges of your marriage. 

How would you feel if you have found your oasis - refuge, relief and fertile ground to empower you to work for marital happiness?

I know how it feels when you are lonely,  have nobody to listen and support you, whom you can trust to discuss salient marital issues that you can't divulge to your family and friends because you are protecting yourself and your marriage from embarassment and humiliation.

Prevention is better than cure! Why wait to experience all destructive feelings and thoughts when you can prevent them to come on your way by being intentional in your marriage?

You deserve to be happy! Right? But you have to work for that happiness.

Get ready to get in the best shape of your marriage, stop the negative feelings and thoughts! Be in our community!

METO - Marriage Empowerment Tribe Oasis Membership will be here for you to mentor you!

Start it right this time!

Go, Grow and Glow in LOVE , be a better version of you!

We'll be with you in your couple journey to mentor our Work-Smart-Not-Hard IDEA our METO ROADMAP!

Fixing your relationship and rescuing your couple wallet is not impossible you just need a roadmap!

Customize your roadmap according to your own couple circumstance.

How lovely it would be if you will be crafting your own customized roadmap together or if even alone if your partner is not yet ready to join you!   

My motto...

EVERY GREAT MARRIAGES BEGIN WITH A SOLID FOUNDATION!

Yup, there's no perfect marriage but there are strong marriages because of the solid foundation the couple built together.

Spouses may commit mistakes like us, but that doesn't mean that there is no hope to make life together great.

The truth is, there is no marriage school that teaches the skill set needed to help spouses the right strategy and ways to be able to connect with their life partners, save marriages before it starts to crumble using the roadmap Without Having To Go Through Painful Confrontation.

I've made it my mission to spread the message about our METO Roadmap to equip and mentor more and more spouses create purposeful, inspired, productive and empowered marriages. 

To realize this mission I need to build infrastructure and team.  

My Vision:

A tribe of empowered spouses who achieve their couple dreams without sacrificing their personal passion and if you'd like to support this mission...

I invite you to join METO Membership

Be PURPOSEFUL to Achieve Your Couple Dreams,  INSPIRED to  the Fullest in the Company of Your Spouse, PRODUCTIVE in Your Finances and Look EMPOWERED as You Journey Together in Your Married Life

FOCUS ON THE #1 ASSET OF YOUR MARRIAGE, YOU!

If you’re looking for more hands on help and support then come and join our membership. You’ll get access to all of our training sessions and get to connect with our members!