IS YOUR MARRIAGE IMPORTANT TO YOU?
Do You Have A BIG Dream For Your Marriage And Want To Boost Your Relationship, Feel Loved and Look Empowered Without Sacrificing Your Personal Passion?
YOU DESERVE TO BE A HAPPY SPOUSE!
Are you one of those who asked these questions?
Where did our passion go?
What will inspire us to continue in this relationship?
We are working hard but why can't we improve our economic life?
Until when will I be stressed in this rat race of my married life?
Why can't I change him/her? Bakit ako na lang palagi ang mag-aadjust?
When will our relationship run smoothly and at peace?
If you answered YES in the first question, YOU ARE AT THE RIGHT PLACE!
Hi Friend I’m JET ELNAR.
We have seen our share of marital struggles but what we have also seen were relationships transformed.
Our HARMONY & MONEY STORY
I would like to tell you our story about being saddled with debt (sa madaling salita nalibing sa utang), and how we managed to gain control over our finances, live the life we always imagined, and start a thriving business.
Tulad mo pumasok kami sa pag-aasawa na ang nasa mindset ay magkaroon ng magandang pagsasama, magkaroon ng magandang buhay, masaya kasama ang mga bata at kung may problema man na darating kasama kaming makipaglaban sa buhay.
Ngunit iba ang nangyari.
Nagkaron ng cancer ang nanay ko.
Nagkasakit mga magulang ng asawa ko.
Nagcomplete bed rest ako ng mabuntis at napahinto ng sampung buwan sa trabaho ko.
Lagi na lang kaming kapos sa pera may trabaho naman kaming dalawa pero ang laging favorite line ko noon “kulang to.”
Unang araw pa lang ng pagsasama namin meron na kaming utang.
Nagmortgage kami ng bahay sa Pag-Ibig.
After 1 year nagka-anak at nagkaroon ng dagdag gastusin.
On this same year dahil malayo ang workplace namin sa bahay namin umutang ng sasakyan.
Isang araw dala dala ng asawa ko ang isang card ayon credit card pala ang tawag nyon.
Happy dahil may mapapag-uutangan daw kami para pang-emergency.
Never na naiintindihan namin na laki pala maging interest sa utang na yon na lomolobo sa pagdaan ng panahon at nagkacredit card trouble.
So ang kita namin mag-asawa hanggang daily expense at pambayad ng utang palagi, minsan kulang pa nga pambayad kaya utang para ibayad ng utang.
All this time na meron kaming daming problema away kami ng away, walang peace of mind at feeling namin naging ipokrita kami kasi smile at serve kami sa church pero sa loob ng bahay disaster ang buhay.
Sobrang pangit ng mukha namin at ugali namin pag kami ay nag-aaway.
Nagkaroon ako ng chance mag-apply abroad, apply agad kasi ang isip pag maging OFW ako meron na akong pambayad ng utang.
Thinking that it will help alleviate our financial condition I applied for the position.
Within a year we, together with fellow teacher applicants were interviewed, made to pay fees, promised of a sponsoring employer yet still we were not deployed abroad.
We were made to hope that our sponsors were still working on our papers.
Ngunit alam nyo po ba kamalas malas talaga nai-scam ang 6 figure na pera na inutang namin para sa work na yon.
Dagdag problema stage four cancer na rin ang nanay ko.
Hanggang isang araw sa edad na 37 nastroke ang asawa ko.
Ito ang turning point ko personally dahil as in literal BROKE kami, ni piso wala kaming naitabi for emergency. Puro pa kami utang.
Dahil nga mahina ang katawan ng asawa ko nag-decide kami na mag-early retirement siya, para na rin merong magamit para sa matagal na gamutan niya.
Later ako naman ang nag-avail ng early retirement para mabayaran namin ang aming mga naiwang utang.
Obvious ba na need namin noon ang financial literacy?
But what we needed most that time ay mga taong tutulong at magtuturo sa amin how to bounce back at kung papano kami makabawi.
Ang karanasang ito rin ang nagpabukas ng isipan namin.
Di namin akalain na kailangan namin di lang “financial literacy” but “TOTAL TRANSFORMATION.”
Our mind, body, heart and soul must be transformed.
Ang transformation kasi nagsimula sa sariling loob namin mag-asawa.
Sobrang dalangin ko ng financial. emotional and physical healing.
Ang asawa ko naman prayer din niya ang physical healing at disiplina sa katawan.
Then We Found Our SAVIORS
We were able to have peace of mind and stop money arguments.
We serve in church with authenticity and joy.
My husband is helping me in my passion to write books, speak and eventually led us to mentoring couples.
Nakapag-umpisang magkaron ng investments.
Our business is moving forward.
Together with my hubby, Manny, became U.S. certified marriage mentors, marriage assessment facilitators and we have the privilege to mentor spouses for more than ten years now.
In short we started to build a harmonious and empowered relationship.
Our realization merong magagawa sa isang sitwasyon na sa tingin mo noon wala ng solusyon at bukas.
Two Things That Helped Us Change Our Couple Situation.
We did only two things...
SELF-REFORMATION AND CREATED OUR ROADMAP
We agreed working on our SELF IMPROVEMENT to work for a better relationship.
We redirected our heart and mind to what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious, excellent and worthy to be praised.
In short, we focused on the positive side of the crisis.
Sabi kasi ng mga relationship gurus, "our thoughts determine our lives."
When our thoughts changed, our lives changed.
When our thoughts changed, our relationship also changed.
We agreed to having CLARITY of our destination as a couple.
It was the best thing that happened in our marital journey.
Being clear on our STRATEGIES to not only survive but to THRIVE in this complex world gave us a new perspective specially in the perspective of Harmony and Money.
Tinanggal namin ang pride pride na yan, nagpakatotoo kami na kailangan namin ng tulong, para kaming student uli, read books, attended lots of trainings, bought lots of online programs, talked to relationship and financial mentors at kumuha kami ng marriage assessment para lalong magkakaintindihan at mapuntirya ang ugat ng lahat ng problema.
We went through the process of improving our habits and our mindset as an empowered spouse.
CREATED OUR ROADMAP
Every marriage has its own circumstance.
Yong nagwowork sa iba may not work on your own.
What we discovered along the way that there are seven common steps applicable for all marriages to reach the destination of love.
For years and to date we were able to share what we know to engaged and married couples.
Couples experienced the assessment, and created their own unique METO Roadmap.
And you can just imagine the joy they felt and how fulfilling it is on our end to find spouses happy and thriving in their own relationships.
Then I wrote an ebook.
We started our Marriage Empowerment Toast live streaming on our Facebook group, page and YouTube channel.
Spouses started to email us, commented on our videos and sent private messages.
We've noticed na common ang mga problema ng mga spouses, pera, infidelity, attitude problem, commitment, communication etc., but what is inspiring us is that they, including YOU want to be mentored!
We call it the METO way.
I know that you just heard this acronym.
Kung sa diet nga may KETO, sa pagsasama may METO.
How would you feel if you have found your oasis - refuge, relief and fertile ground to empower you to work for marital happiness!
How lovely it would be if you will be crafting your own customized roadmap together or alone muna if hindi pa ready si partner!
Yup, my hubby and I enjoyed our company as we envisioned our roadmap at dito namin nasasabing meron talagang forever as each marriage including yours has been blessed by the author of Love who is God Himself.
Get ready to get in the best shape of your marriage, stop the negative feelings and thoughts!
Marriage Empowerment Tribe Oasis Membership will be here for you to mentor you!
It is a big help for engaged couples like us to know what marriage life would be. Marriage is not about "magarbong" wedding it is all about growing old with the person you love. During our 1st week of marriage assessment with Jet and her husband Manny we discovered and learned a lot of insights from them. From the result we were able to create our own customized version METO Roadmap!
If you need help for your marriage you are at the right place.
Rosemarie Gumera - YouTube Content Creator
It really helped us a lot! Nakita namin ano yong mga puedeng pagmulan ng away, ano yong kailangan ng isa't isa.
I highly recommend it.
Trixie Esguerra- Vision Board Coach
In addition, kung noon busy kami arguing who is right or wrong, how to make life better, now we are occupied to deliver couple talks, create online Marriage Empowerment videos, join other spouses speak on workshops.
Start it right this time!
Go, Grow and Glow in LOVE , be a better version of you!
We'll will be with you in your couple journey to mentor our Work-Smart-Not-Hard IDEA our METO ROADMAP!
Fixing your relationship is not impossible you just need a roadmap!
Customize your roadmap according to your own couple circumstance.
EVERY GREAT MARRIAGES BEGIN WITH A SOLID FOUNDATION!
Yup, there's no perfect marriage but there are strong marriages because of the solid foundation the couple built together.
Spouses may commit mistakes like us, but that doesn't mean that there is no hope to make life together great.
I've made it my mission to spread the message about our METO Roadmap to equip and mentor more and more spouses create purposeful, inspired, productive and empowered marriages.
Para matulungan ang mga spouses sa tamang mga stratehiya o pamamaraan to be able to connect with their life partners, save marriages before it starts to crumble using the roadmap Without Having To Go Through Painful Confrontation.
To realize this mission I need to build infrastructure and team.
Isang tribu of empowered spouses who achieve their couple dreams without sacrificing their personal passion and if you'd like to support this mission...
I invite you to join METO Membership
Be PURPOSEFUL to Achieve Your Couple Dreams, INSPIRED to the Fullest in the Company of Your Spouse, PRODUCTIVE in Your Finances and Look EMPOWERED as You Journey Together in Your Married Life
FOCUS ON THE #1 ASSET OF YOUR MARRIAGE, YOU!
Now if you are a spouse who...
But you ...
Then It Is Time To Be one of the first members who join and receive over Php 20,000 worth of incredible METO relationship blessings!
METO Blessing #1
Now You and Your Spouse Can Take The Marriage Assessment
(Value Php 3,997)
There is no better way to start your marriage right than assessing it!
Some couples spend more time preparing for their wedding than they do for their marriage since wedding plans are more tangible. But the truth remains: Being prepared for a wedding does not equal being prepared for the ups and downs for a marriage.
Marriage assessment is not a test. It is not designed as a predictor of success or failure in marriage. It is NOT a relationship breaker but a relationship maker. It is a CATALYST for personalized insight and exploring how you can leverage your unique combination of your personalities as spouses for navigating your lifelong love.
The process is completely confidential and results will be held privately and will never be made public.
METO Blessing #2
Receive Our Marriage Printables in PDF Format!
(Value Php 3, 000)
Printable materials will be afforded to you as part of the support namely, your customizable couple journal, couple planner, couple finance ebook, a startup blueprint for your future couple business and more. Of course, all of these are absolutely FREE!
METO Blessing #3
You Can Attend A Virtual Workshop FREE Admission
(Value Php 4, 997)
Three big virtual workshops- Poised For Success: Financial Empowerment Workshop, Empowered Couples Parenting Workshop and Empowered Couples Online Business Summit will be made available to you via Zoom.
METO Blessing #4
Get Practical Guidance In A Virtual Call With A Certified Mentor
(Value Php 14, 997)
Our community loves this group interactive call and we know you will too, because it is your opportunity every week to ask any burning questions you have about your marriage, business, and other marital issues.
We will talk about the TOP things you need to reach your desired destination of your relationship.
METO Blessing #5
Happy You Plus Happy Spouse Automatic Access
(Value Php 5,997)
Of course your spouse is most welcome!
Automatically your spouse will be given his or her own access of the METO Membership even if he or she may not be ready to journey with you yet. But never loose hope, what a nice way to attune your mind and spirit if you are learning the same Go, Grow, Glow framework, at your own time and convenience.
METO Blessing #6
Enjoy Community Support Through A Private VIP Facebook Group
The VIP Private Facebook Community allows you to be with like-minded spouses. Experience is the best teacher as educators would often say, sharing common couple experiences enhances learning and camaraderie.
As this popular quote of Jim Rohn says:
"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."
METO Blessing #7
You Can Earn A Passive Income
You can earn while on vacation or at sleep by being an affiliate. You will earn a one time 10% commission for every person that joins METO through your referral or invitation. An affiliate training and link will be provided to you once you are a METO member.
Marriage Empowerment Tribe Oasis Membership provides you access to a valuable, unique and growing library of videos, courses, and downloadable resources that will support and create physical, emotional and spiritual connection inside of your marriage and help design a PURPOSEFUL, INSPIRED, PRODUCTIVE and EMPOWERED married life roadmap.
Access to videos that will guide you step by step for you to grow in your relationship, sharing tips and advice for building a wildly successful marriage. It is not of course to overwhelm you with input without any transformation, our #1 goal is to inspire & empower you in the easiest way possible.
Online tools that will transform your marriage to a healthy one. Every month we publish kits and activities that will help your marriage brim with inspiration and fun.
Journey with you in learning the ingredients of a marriage recipe through mini and masterclass courses that tackles common issues like money, communication, sex and more where two or more people coming together in harmony to solve problems and expand your idea of what is possible.
Here's What Some Of My Students-Mentees Say
A must for couples who are really serious in making their marriage stronger and finishing the journey together for better or for worse.
This program is a gift to us.
Franklin Vios - Speaker-Author
Dami learnings very vital sa buhay mag asawa. GOD bless you po mam Jet!
MJ Tapia - Business Manager @ Tabletop Digital
So happy and #feelingblessed for being able to graduate in your Harmony and Money Masterclass ate Jet which is part of this membership!
It was a wonderful experience and we were able to learn a lot of things especially when it came to money matters. Fun and exciting permi ang klase and dili jud ka maka.feel og duka, ing ana xa ka exciting!
Swerte kaau mi We were so lucky), ang mga naka.avail sa imong klase (YEAY!!!). I know some people na magspend og time and money and still wala gihapon silay nakuha kai kulang2 ra ang inputs. But in your class? Hands down! Naa pay one on one coaching nga coming!!! Excited
Thank you for being my mentor Ate Jet! And for always encouraging me and giving me new ideas on how to grow my finances. Indeed, I am blessed for having you as my mentor. More masterclasses to come and have a blessed life! As you would always say " if you fail to plan, you plan to fail". Thank you and more power!
Melody Diras - Home-based ESL teacher, wife & mom
I never thought it was possible until our mentorship video chat nga mao akong gi look back pag present sa akong mga anak sa bizniz nangita ra ko sa strongest why (which I used to look back and present to my children about the bisniz to find the strongest why). After you teaching us step by step what to do to start our business I was so determined and passionate upon knowing through your guidance that the opportunities are within our hands. So grateful Sis Jet that you were there mentoring us in our couple finance journey and seeing our future in preserving harmony in our relationship and starting out our online business.
Joseph Pardo - Teacher turned entrepreneur
If you’re looking for more hands on help and support then come and join our membership. You’ll get access to all of our training sessions and get to connect with our members!
Join METO NOW
& Never Miss Your Chance To Be Mentored!
Jet is a loving wife and mother. Together with her hubby Emmanuel are U.S. certified marriage mentors and assessment facilitators. She herself is a certified life coach.
Jet is a graduate of Bachelor of Science in Mathematics from University of the Philippines and a Master of Science in Mathematics at Ateneo de Manila University. Earned a Diploma for Special Education. She is an author, speaker, statistician and professor. Founder of Marriage Empowerment Tribe and Ecclesiastes Training and Development, a seminar organizing company.
As a couple they have their share of marital struggles, fights, relationship dryness and their story of overcoming them.
Now they serve as Family Life Apostolate coordinator in their local parish. Jet is passionate about promoting the value and purpose of human life.