Are You Ready to Get in the Best Shape of Your Marriage, Achieve Your Couple Dreams Without Sacrificing Your Personal Passion?

ATTENTION : WIFEYS & HUBBIES

 IS YOUR MARRIAGE IMPORTANT TO YOU?

Learn The METO Way  To Be PURPOSEFUL  To Achieve Your Couple Dreams, INSPIRED to the Fullest in the Company of Your Spouse, PRODUCTIVE in Your Finances and Look EMPOWERED as You Journey Together in Your Married Life Without Sacrificing Your Personal Passion

This letter will change your life!

Hi I’m JET ELNAR.

Together with my hubby, Manny, we're  U.S. certified marriage mentors, marriage assessment facilitators and we have the privilege to mentor spouses for more than ten years now. We have seen our share of marital struggles but what we have also seen were relationships transformed using the METO way.

Are you one of those who asked these questions?

Where did our passion go?

What will inspire us to continue in this relationship?

We are working hard but why can't we improve our economic life?

Until when will I be stressed in this rat race of my married life?

Why can't I change him/her?

When will our relationship run smoothly and at peace?

Access to videos that will guide you step by step for you to grow in your relationship, and be a better you to build a wildly successful marriage. Our #1 goal is to inspire & empower you. Online tools that will transform your marriage to a healthy one. Every month we publish themed kits and activities that will help your marriage brim with inspiration and fun.  Journey with you in learning the ingredients of a marriage recipe through mini courses that tackles common issues like communication, sex , couple finance, and more.

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Access to videos that will guide you step by step for you to grow in your relationship, and be a better you to build a wildly successful marriage. Our #1 goal is to inspire & empower you. Online tools that will transform your marriage to a healthy one. Every month we publish themed kits and activities that will help your marriage brim with inspiration and fun.  Journey with you in learning the ingredients of a marriage recipe through mini courses that tackles common issues like communication, sex , couple finance, and more.

Hi I’m JET ELNAR.

I am a U.S. certified marriage mentor, marriage assessment facilitator and I have the privilege to mentor spouses for more than ten years now. I have seen my share of marital struggles but what I have also seen ang power ni God na magtransform ng relationships.

Pero bago ako naging marriage mentor ito ang storya namin mag-asawa.

Our HARMONY & MONEY STORY

I would like to tell you our story about being saddled with debt (sa madaling salita nalibing sa utang), and how I managed to gain control over my finances together with my hubby, start a profitable business, and live the life I always imagined.

Tulad mo pumasok kami sa pag-aasawa na ang nasa mindset ay magkaroon ng magandang pagsasama, magkaroon ng magandang buhay, masaya kasama ang mga bata at kung may problema man na darating kasama kaming makipaglaban sa buhay.

Ngunit iba ang nangyari.

Nagkaron ng cancer ang nanay ko.

Nagkasakit mga magulang ng asawa ko.

Nagcomplete bed rest ako ng mabuntis at napahinto sandali sa trabaho ko.

Lagi na lang kaming kapos sa pera may trabaho naman kaming dalawa pero ang laging favorite line ko noon “kulang to.”

Unang araw pa lang ng pagsasama namin meron na kaming utang.

Nagmortgage kami ng bahay sa Pag-Ibig. 

After 1 year nagka-anak at nagkaroon ng dagdag gastusin.

On this same year dahil malayo ang workplace namin sa bahay namin umutang  ng sasakyan.

Isang araw dala dala ng asawa ko ang isang card ayon credit card pala ang tawag nyon. Happy dahil may mapapag-uutangan daw kami para pang-emergency. Never na naiintindihan namin na laki pala maging interest sa utang na yon na lomolobo sa pagdaan ng panahon at nagkacredit card trouble.

So ang kita namin mag-asawa hanggang daily expense at pambayad ng utang palagi, minsan kulang pa nga pambayad kaya utang para ibayad ng utang.

All this time na meron kaming daming problema away kami ng away, walang peace of mind at feeling namin naging ipokrita kami kasi smile at serve kami sa church pero sa loob ng bahay disaster ang buhay. (Ang picture namin sa baba re-enactment na lang yon dahil wala pang selfie noon, pero sobrang pangit ng mukha namin at ugali namin pag kami ay nag-aaway).

Hanggang isang araw sa edad na 37 nastroke ang asawa ko. Ito ang turning point ko dahil as in literal BROKE kami, ni piso wala kaming naitabi for emergency. Puro pa kami utang.

Ngunit ito rin ang nagpabukas ng isipan namin. Di namin akalain na kailangan namin di lang “financial literacy” but  “TOTAL TRANSFORMATION” in short the mind, body and soul must be transformed. 

Ang transformation kasi nagsimula sa sariling loob namin mag-asawa.

Sobrang dalangin ko ng financial healing.

Ang asawa ko naman prayer din niya ang physical healing at disiplina sa katawan.

Dahil nga mahina ang katawan ng asawa ko nag-decide kami na mag-early retirement siya, para na rin meron partial pambayad ng utang.

Nagkaroon ako ng chance mag-apply abroad, apply agad kasi ang isip pag maging OFW ako meron na akong pambayad ng utang. Thinking that it will help alleviate our financial condition I applied for the position. Within a year we, together with fellow teacher applicants were interviewed, made to pay fees, promised of a sponsoring school yet still we were not deployed abroad. We were made to hope that sponsoring schools were still working on our papers.  

Ngunit alam nyo po ba kamalas malas talaga nai-scam ang 6 figure na pera na inutang namin para sa work na yon.

Maling financial decisions ulit.

So para mabayaran na naman ang utang ako naman ngayon ang nag-early retirement. So dalawa na kaming jobless. 

Dagdag problema stage four cancer na rin ang nanay ko.

Then we found our SAVIORS

Sa ngayon no more utang, merong investments, merong pagkakaunawaan in short May Harmony Na May Prosperity Pa, modesty aside am not bragging gusto ko lang ipaabot sa inyo na talagang merong magagawa sa isang sitwasyon na sa tingin mo noon wala ng lutas at bukas.

Looking back ano-ano pala ginagawa namin para makamit ang TOTAL TRANSFORMATION na dinalangin namin?

Ano ba secret formula namin mag-asawa at nakabawi kami sa sitwasyon namin?

Una, PRAYER walang ibang nagpapagulong ng buhay namin na may WISDOM, may DISIPLINA, at PUNO ng PAG-ASA kung di ang Dios lamang;

Buti na lang may mga tunay na kaibigan at kapamilya kaming tumutulong samin sa panahon na yon. Thank you Lord talaga ang laging naisambit ko. 

Pangalawa, nagkaroon ng RELATIONSHIP MENTOR at FINANCIAL COACH para silang nag-guide samin ano ang next ninja moves, first step, second step, third step...slowly but surely this time para makabawi naman kami sa buhay. Tinanggal namin ang pride pride na yan, nagpakatotoo kami na kailangan namin ng tulong, para kaming student uli;

Pangatlo, NAG-ARAL kami, lalo na ako (di ba sa Pinas tayong mga wifey ang binigyan ni hubby ng malaking papel sa pagbubudget at pagpapalago ng pera mag-asawa, wala kasing pormal na school para dito sa mga wifeys). Inaral namin papano nga magkaroon ng additional na income, na walang utang at magkaron ng added na kita maliban sa sweldo at lalo na kung papano makamit ang pagkakaunawaan sa isat isa at maiintindihan namin ang money relationship namin mag-asawa (nagpa-marriage assessment kami). 

Nag-attend ng kadamidaming seminars both offline and online, nagbasa ng kadami daming libro;

(Naging online mentors namin sina Coaches Jon, Laurent at Doc Lloyd).

Pang-apat, CHANGED MY MINDSET. Kung noon ang laging sambit ay “kulang ito” ngayon “Kaya natin to, daming magagawa natin para magkaroon ng pera para magamit natin sa pangangailangan natin, sa pamilya at kung maari makatulong sa ibang tao.”

Panglima, AKSYON. Walang mangyayari sa buhay kahit daming natututunan kung walang aplikasyon. Lahat na assignment na pinagagawa samin ginagawa namin.

Pang-anim, ENJOY the journey. Tawanan ang problema, gawan ng paraan. Kasi noong away kami nga away, nagkasakitan ng loob, mantakin mo naman sasabihan ako “ubos na naman saan ba napunta ang sweldo ko?” nagngingitngit talaga ang loob ko sa galit grrrr... pero di rin naayos ang problema. So mas mabuti lamig ng ulo at i-enjoy na lang muna ang journey.

Sa ngayon offline nagkaron kami mga imbitasyon ng Talks sa mga workshops para magshare sa mga mag-asawa ano sikreto namin at ano mga ginawa namin at makamtan ang Harmony at Money.

We got a Work-Smart-Not-Hard IDEA

What if I found  powerful blueprints from them. I was thinking for a moment about it and then I did it. I modeled ( modeled, not copied) every advice we received from our coaches and mentors and convinced my spouse to  achieve balance in our couple harmony and money and start growing our money in marriage yet never lose our spirituality.

Then, we followed one thing, create our Younique Marriage Roadmap that we easily followed through.

The Result

Nagkaroon ng online course - HarMoney Masterclass - 8 Weeks ko igaguide lahat na kailangan matututunan mga spouses para maayos ang pagkakaunawaan (Harmony) at additional na pagkakakitaan (Money) ng mag-asawa. Sa masterclass kong ito nirereveal ko ang mga ginawa ko para makumbinsi si hubby na dapat i-workout namin maayos ang budget namin mag-asawa.

Naging speaker ako sa isang in-person program na nagtuturo tungkol sa Financial Empowerment ng mag-asawa.

Ini-interview ng mga online entrepreneurs to share what I know on balancing Harmony and Money.

Now paying forward, I will be sharing lessons my husband and I learned on that experience to you in less than 90 days which we were able to learn in several years. You will no longer enroll on several seminars, buy tons of books, hop from one mentor to another because I am going to journey with you step by step in your creation of your one unique harmony and money blueprint.

EVERY GREAT MARRIAGES BEGIN WITH A SOLID FOUNDATION!

Yup, there's no perfect marriage but there are strong marriages because of the solid foundation the couple built together. Spouses may commit mistakes like us, but that doesn't mean that there is no hope to make life together great.

I've made it my mission to spread the message about our Marriage Empowerment Roadmap to equip and mentor more and more spouses create purposeful, inspired, productive and empowered marriages. Para matulungan ang mga spouses sa tamang mga stratehiya o pamamaraan to be able to connect with their life partners, save marriages before it starts to crumble using the roadmap Without Having To Go Through Painful Confrontation.

To realize this mission I need to build infrastructure and team.  

My Vision: Isang tribu of empowered spouses who achieve their couple dreams without sacrificing their personal passion and if you'd like to support this mission I invite you to join METO.